Women who like using dildos and strapons on their men.

[dutch]

We understand that the man enjoys the physical sensations of getting his ass fucked, but what do the women enjoy? I'm not talking about being physically stimulated, What goes through your head and what gets you off? Do you ,enjoy the power trip, watching him submit to your will, enjoy giving him unbelievable pleasure or just enjoy the fun of fucking an ass with a dildo or strapon?
Guys, please speak for your ladies.

[Wilton Tushup]

She'll do it, and enjoys it, but I don't think that it's a big turn-on for her.

She'll never say, "Hey, I feel like using the strap-on on you." What's important is that if I do bring it up, she's willing - which I appreciate.

[dutch]

Besides the things mentioned, my wife thinks of it as an Easy Out.
My wife would rather fuck my ass with a dildo then give me oral or even a handjob.(I know she won't read this: I really don't mind because her bjs were lame and her handjobs were worse. Between the asthma, the gagging, the carpal tunnel , I'm better off getting fucked in the ass.) As it turns out, she enjoys doing it to me. In her own words, she says she likes it because there is no wear and tear on her(unless she wants it) and it keeps me very satisfied. I don't complain about "not having sex" because I am being taken into another dimention whenever she slides the dildo in my ass. She may not get physical pleasure out of it, but she gets mentally excited when she sees how it drives me wild. And best of all, she loves watching the dildos penetrate my asshole, spreading it wide as the dildo disappears deep into me.
I miss fucking her, even the so-so bjs, even her carrot pulling handjobs, but I quickly forget about it all when I feel the cold lube hit my asshole.
This is the greatest compromise ever.