Wife's first time with plugged husband

Toy Boy · 08-04-2007, 02:12 AM

I finally coaxed my wife into sharing my love for anal play.
For the first time, we fooled around while I was plugged.

You have to remember that shes the "very religious" type that always quoted a bible verse saying "not to use the body for unnatural purposes." I wasn't sure this day would ever come. But here it is and I'm supercharged about it.

As we got ready for bed, she told me I could get a toy for some fooling around. She wasn't feeling 100% but she wanted me to have a good time tonight. I grabbed my favorite toy ( Tantus Severin ) lubed it up, popped it in, and rushed back to the bedroom.

I wanted our first plugged activity together to be simple and fun, so that there can be many more "next times" that will hopefully have her taking a more active role. Physically I only got a handjob, but sexually we broke new ground.

Afterwords, I took out the massage oil and rubbed her neck and back until my forearms were sore. I wanted to show her just how much this meant to me. We talked about the experience, she doesn't feel comfortable getting too close to the plug ( no plugged blowjobs yet ) or her working it for me.

I'm hoping that by taking it nice and slow, that I can make it easy for her to do more over time. Maybe if I get her to watch the "bend over boyfriend" movie, focussing on the "educating" first half of the video, that might help her comfort level.

Anyone have any other ideas or tips for helping her comfort level grow ?
If possible, I want to create the right atmosphere and let all our fantasies come true. One day I might have the strap-on weilding diva that I have never had before.

strapyboy · 08-15-2007, 05:02 PM

Well congrats. I think it's just going to be more comfortable for her over time. Maybe take a little trip together or something. I know when we're on vacation, she's much more willing to do things that she wouldn't do at home.

dutch · 08-17-2007, 12:15 PM

In the beginning, my wife didn't want to have anything to do with anal, nevermind doing anything to me. However, she told me that I could do whatever I wanted to myself, it's my body. She was cool with the fact that I did enjoy anal/prostate stimulation, but she still didn't want anything to do with doing it to me.
I tried the waters by using my buttplugs without telling her. She wans't going anywhere near my ass, so I gave it a shot.
The first time I came to bed with the buttplug in my ass, I was all sorts of nervous. We were cuddling in bed and I was rubbing my cock against her ass and feeling the buttplug sending waves of sensations through me. I asked her if she wanted to fuck, but she offered me a bj to get it over with. She never knew. Getting a bj with the plug in my ass was almost undescribable .
The next time I did it, we fucked. That was something else. I felt like I was getting fucked while I was fucking her. The orgasms and ejacultions were unbelievable too. My wife would rather have me cum on her, then in her, so I finish off like that. Even she was astounded at how much I came. I felt like I could keep on cumming.
I did eventually tell her about my sneaky buttplug experiences and she didn't believe me. That night I started playing around with her. She was on her stomach and I was on top of her, rubbing my cock in her ass crack and massaging her shoulders. When I do that, she likes me to cum on her back. As she pushed back against my cock, I told her that I had the toy in me.
Her exact words were "no way, let me see.' I moved and turned to show her the base of the plug snug against my asshole. I got back over her and continued to hump her ass. I would move and sit firmly on her legs or ass and rock on the buttplug while stroking my cock and cumming on her back.
She asked me to clean her up and called me a sicko.
All in all, she didn't mind. After that, when she wasn't in the mood, she would tell me to take my toys and have some fun. Eventually, with a little more education and seeing how I was enjoying my own anal fun, she started to get with the program.
You have to start somewhere.
Good luck

Toy Boy · 08-17-2007, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dutch

In the beginning, my wife didn't want to have anything to do with anal, nevermind doing anything to me. ... I tried the waters by using my buttplugs without telling her.

I had thought about sneaking it into the bedroom action, but then I figured she'd be more upset for deceiving her on something she wasn't comfortable with yet.

After she agreed that I could have some plugged fun with her, she said that for our first time, I should just do it and tell her after. The next time we were together was our 7th anniversary ( 3 weeks ago ) she had a headache but agreed to what we call "outercourse". I put my Severin in place, had a good time, and I told her after.

I'm hoping that she will watch an anal education show (bend over boyfriend) with me, try to educate her a bit and normalize what I want to share with her. Not sure if I'll ever get her in the drivers seat, but I'm going to keep trying, slow and steady.

Funny thing is that when she says "I have a mild headache" that means that I might be getting what I really want from her.

08-04-2007, 02:12 AM	#1
Toy Boy Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: BC, Canada Posts: 148	Wife's first time with plugged husband I finally coaxed my wife into sharing my love for anal play. For the first time, we fooled around while I was plugged. You have to remember that shes the "very religious" type that always quoted a bible verse saying "not to use the body for unnatural purposes." I wasn't sure this day would ever come. But here it is and I'm supercharged about it. As we got ready for bed, she told me I could get a toy for some fooling around. She wasn't feeling 100% but she wanted me to have a good time tonight. I grabbed my favorite toy ( Tantus Severin ) lubed it up, popped it in, and rushed back to the bedroom. I wanted our first plugged activity together to be simple and fun, so that there can be many more "next times" that will hopefully have her taking a more active role. Physically I only got a handjob, but sexually we broke new ground. Afterwords, I took out the massage oil and rubbed her neck and back until my forearms were sore. I wanted to show her just how much this meant to me. We talked about the experience, she doesn't feel comfortable getting too close to the plug ( no plugged blowjobs yet ) or her working it for me. I'm hoping that by taking it nice and slow, that I can make it easy for her to do more over time. Maybe if I get her to watch the "bend over boyfriend" movie, focussing on the "educating" first half of the video, that might help her comfort level. Anyone have any other ideas or tips for helping her comfort level grow ? If possible, I want to create the right atmosphere and let all our fantasies come true. One day I might have the strap-on weilding diva that I have never had before.

08-17-2007, 12:15 PM	#3
dutch Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 460	My first buttplug experiences were clandestine In the beginning, my wife didn't want to have anything to do with anal, nevermind doing anything to me. However, she told me that I could do whatever I wanted to myself, it's my body. She was cool with the fact that I did enjoy anal/prostate stimulation, but she still didn't want anything to do with doing it to me. I tried the waters by using my buttplugs without telling her. She wans't going anywhere near my ass, so I gave it a shot. The first time I came to bed with the buttplug in my ass, I was all sorts of nervous. We were cuddling in bed and I was rubbing my cock against her ass and feeling the buttplug sending waves of sensations through me. I asked her if she wanted to fuck, but she offered me a bj to get it over with. She never knew. Getting a bj with the plug in my ass was almost undescribable . The next time I did it, we fucked. That was something else. I felt like I was getting fucked while I was fucking her. The orgasms and ejacultions were unbelievable too. My wife would rather have me cum on her, then in her, so I finish off like that. Even she was astounded at how much I came. I felt like I could keep on cumming. I did eventually tell her about my sneaky buttplug experiences and she didn't believe me. That night I started playing around with her. She was on her stomach and I was on top of her, rubbing my cock in her ass crack and massaging her shoulders. When I do that, she likes me to cum on her back. As she pushed back against my cock, I told her that I had the toy in me. Her exact words were "no way, let me see.' I moved and turned to show her the base of the plug snug against my asshole. I got back over her and continued to hump her ass. I would move and sit firmly on her legs or ass and rock on the buttplug while stroking my cock and cumming on her back. She asked me to clean her up and called me a sicko. All in all, she didn't mind. After that, when she wasn't in the mood, she would tell me to take my toys and have some fun. Eventually, with a little more education and seeing how I was enjoying my own anal fun, she started to get with the program. You have to start somewhere. Good luck

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08-15-2007, 05:02 PM	#2
strapyboy Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 32	Well congrats. I think it's just going to be more comfortable for her over time. Maybe take a little trip together or something. I know when we're on vacation, she's much more willing to do things that she wouldn't do at home.