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Old 03-24-2006, 11:54 PM   #1
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Default Anal Insertion Size Limits?

I've been practicing anal penetration during masturbation for years now, but have only seriously been buying toys for a little while. To me, the most pleasurable sensation is that of stretching myself, and I'm currently up to about 3 inches in diameter. I was just wondering, assuming I'm using plenty of lube and going slowly and paying attention to the messages my body is sending me, is there a limit to how large is safe for insertion? I don't want to do any permanent damage or anything.

On a secondary note, does anybody have any suggestions for toys they like that are more than 2.5 inches diameter? My collection is always growing!
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Old 03-25-2006, 06:27 PM   #2
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Yes, there are indeed physical limits. Just as there are limits to the amount of food one can ingest in a single meal, to the length of time one can hold their breath, or to the distance one can run. However, just like all of the limits mentioned above, your personal limitations are different from everyone else's. Therefore it is impossible to say that at three inches you have "maxed out" or that you have another three to go.

You are doing exactly what you should be doing, and that is taking the responsibility to go slow and listen to your body. Your body will let you know when you're getting close to, or have reached your personal limit.

Stick with that routine and you should be alright.

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Old 03-27-2006, 12:56 PM   #3
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I'm afraid I lack the information and knowledge to provide any useful advice on this one....
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Old 04-03-2006, 04:30 PM   #4
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i have been fisted for a number of years now and am a lot looser than i used to be ... but i like it that way.

i can take 2 or 3 fingers stright away with no trouble really. with some lube, probably 4 or 5.
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Old 04-03-2006, 05:18 PM   #5
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Fister,

See my reply to your post in the "Help With Bigger Toys" thread.

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Old 04-13-2006, 08:47 PM   #6
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Default practical size limit

The practical size limit is whatever your pelvic opening is!
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Old 07-13-2006, 12:20 AM   #7
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I have a 3incher, or slightly larger, that I can take pretty easy. Bit of lube, some teasing and pressure and 2 min later it's in. I've gone beyond that, but its beyond my safe limit - Ive also added a hard plastic dildo beside it (yes, double penetrated, 3" + 1"!), but that requires a lot of pressure and can slip and hurt. (Noticed a small amount of light pink blood after, as well, just some microtears at the opening. Was sore but healed fast.) I got a softer jelly dildo in but that was hard cuz I couldn't push on it enough to force it in properly... it's probably 1.5" in diameter (1.5 + 3" total...not 4.5" around, but across in one direction (!)).

I've also got an inflateable dildo which I've put in first completely deflated (after stretching with the 3"er first!), then put the 3"er in, then inflated it... thats pretty intense. Doesnt hurt my opening, but i think its pressing too hard on my nerves cuz I can feel some tingling/numbness in my penis (!! same as what I get when I ride my bike for a few hours on the hard seat, ow). Probably also not a great idea. I dont think I could take anything that was solid thats any larger than the 3"er because my pelvis is just not wide enough.

A good safe toy however are dark purple eggplants! Pretty soft, smooth, and has a fleshy feeling to it, and the right taper. Find the ripe shape and width, and its probably the best toy I've used Leave it to nature! I've gone beyond 3" with it, but not sure how big (I dont carry a tape measure around... the scene is too intense!)

My question is... do any women engage in this? Seems only the men are size queens (probably has something to do with having a prostate gland...
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Old 12-04-2006, 05:24 PM   #8
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Limits - only you can find it with your own body and of course..wants and your ultimate goal.

But toys now that's something I can help ya with. Two of my favorites are NassToys 9" Jelly Big Boy w/suction cup (not to be confused with other rip off Big Boy toys being sold) and my newest ultra favorite is DJ's Bam Realistic also with suction cup.

The Big Boy is made of firm yet very comfortable jelly - its shape is so comfortable for anal it feels as though it was designed specifically for anal use (but I doubt it was) It has about 8" of insertable shaft and is a true 2.5" in diameter - that's measured straight across the widest part of the shaft/head not circumfrence which is total distance around. This is a dong that was made for pounding and is what my gf uses when she fucks me. It is ideal for strap-on use especially using the Uninhibited 2-Ring Leather Harness.

Bam Realistic is made of DJ Realistic rubber material and is the next size up from the Big Boy. Its design and shape are unique amongst this style dong and is surprizingly easy to insert - most of the bigger, soft toys flex too much and are, ahum, a pain in the ass to fuck.

Its 13" long with approxamately 11" insertable and is about 2.75-3" in diameter. It varies a bit due to its life-like shape. But dude - if your looking to reach the next level in anal pleasure - Bam will get you there in a most erotic and flat-out mind-blasting fun way.

Plugs are fun, but dongs are where the fuck pleasure is found. You just can't get this experience any other way. And with the 2 dongs above - you'll have the quality and size that just makes fucking your ass to a gaping, shake all-over anal orgasm fuck fest, fun and totally on-demand.

If you want more info on the above products just contact me.
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Old 12-05-2006, 04:12 PM   #9
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I have no idea how far one can go with stretching but I came across this guy Goatse's pic's some time ago and well not sure if you want to go this far!

Beware this series of pics are extreme anal stretching and not for the faint of heart.


http://www.exet.nu/html/bildarkiv/goatse.shtml

all I can say is wowzors.
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Old 12-05-2006, 06:30 PM   #10
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Originally Posted by slimjimtim
I have no idea how far one can go with stretching but I came across this guy Goatse's pic's some time ago and well not sure if you want to go this far!

Beware this series of pics are extreme anal stretching and not for the faint of heart.


http://www.exet.nu/html/bildarkiv/goatse.shtml

all I can say is wowzors.
I've actually seem that guy before. Yikes. I'm all for pushing size limits too but I wouldn't ever want to go so far that my butt actually looks any different than normal.
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