Girls and Guys, should a guy give up his ass if he gets hers?

tmmanus · 10-16-2007, 07:40 PM

My wife and I swap anal sex roles, and we both enjoy it either way. I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal.

Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn't his thing?

Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?

Mikxm · 10-16-2007, 08:29 PM

I think it should go both ways yeah. Equal playtime each way

candygirl101 · 10-16-2007, 08:54 PM

Absolutely! Any kind of play should go both ways, it is only fair after all.

CG101

rdynwaitin · 10-16-2007, 10:50 PM

I would be willing to let her have mine IF she would give hers up.
I think one should at least give it up once if their with a partner they trust

Zombunnie · 10-17-2007, 02:57 AM

My husband and I did the whole "well, I let you have mine, now it's your turn!" thing early on. In fact, the night after trying anal for the first time, I was using toys on him. It turns out he loves it

I think, in general, it's a good idea for people to be open minded, and willing to try things that they are curious about, and if you are going to be playing with someone's ass it's a good idea to have knowledge from the other side.

Still, some people have hard limits, and that's fine too. But the most common arguments I hear from guys who don't want to try what they are asking their partners for are: a) I'm not gay! (lucky for you you're having sex with a woman then!) b) I'm just not into it (she might not be either, but plenty of girls give it a whirl and love it!) Personally, I have to be in the right mood and mindset for anal, so we don't do it that often and it's no big deal. Strapon sex is a more common occurrence.

Jude30 · 10-17-2007, 07:12 AM

If they want to that's fine, but I don't agree that it should be one gets it only if the other does it. If you're not doing it to explore your sexuality and find pleasure, only so you can "tag your partners ass" then you shouldn't be doing it.

Toothpick_Vic · 10-23-2007, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by tmmanus

I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal.

Agree with the others who have said no one should feel they have to do anything, however I reccommend receiving anal to anyone because of a. it feels amazing, and b. because as you said, you learn a lot about what it may be like for her/him when they receive and learn for future times when you're giving to be better and have better awareness of what she/he may be going through.

yak · 10-27-2007, 10:21 PM

I agree. Turnabout IS fair play.

Alex Hawke · 10-29-2007, 02:45 PM

turnabout is fair play, but only if both people are into it.
i guess i would say that they should each at least be up for trying it, but i would never make it a requirement. my girl doesn't like to receive anal, but i do. preferences are just that, preferences. of course if a guy has never given it the college try, well then that is another story.

Pink Love · 11-02-2007, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex Hawke

turnabout is fair play, but only if both people are into it.

I agree Alex. They should be willing to try, but if they are not into it you cannot force it. who wants to have anal sex with someone who doesn't want to receive it? I believe in this country that would be illegal.

10-16-2007, 07:40 PM	#1
tmmanus Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2	Girls and Guys, should a guy give up his ass if he gets hers? My wife and I swap anal sex roles, and we both enjoy it either way. I have to say that being fucked with a strapon has made me more sensitive and better at giving it to her, plus she likes that we can have the role reversal. Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn't his thing? Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?

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10-16-2007, 08:29 PM	#2
Mikxm Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2	I think it should go both ways yeah. Equal playtime each way

10-16-2007, 08:54 PM	#3
candygirl101 Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Oregon Posts: 57	Absolutely! Any kind of play should go both ways, it is only fair after all. CG101

10-16-2007, 10:50 PM	#4
rdynwaitin Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 12	I would be willing to let her have mine IF she would give hers up. I think one should at least give it up once if their with a partner they trust

10-17-2007, 02:57 AM	#5
Zombunnie Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 18	My husband and I did the whole "well, I let you have mine, now it's your turn!" thing early on. In fact, the night after trying anal for the first time, I was using toys on him. It turns out he loves it I think, in general, it's a good idea for people to be open minded, and willing to try things that they are curious about, and if you are going to be playing with someone's ass it's a good idea to have knowledge from the other side. Still, some people have hard limits, and that's fine too. But the most common arguments I hear from guys who don't want to try what they are asking their partners for are: a) I'm not gay! (lucky for you you're having sex with a woman then!) b) I'm just not into it (she might not be either, but plenty of girls give it a whirl and love it!) Personally, I have to be in the right mood and mindset for anal, so we don't do it that often and it's no big deal. Strapon sex is a more common occurrence.

10-17-2007, 07:12 AM	#6
Jude30 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 170	If they want to that's fine, but I don't agree that it should be one gets it only if the other does it. If you're not doing it to explore your sexuality and find pleasure, only so you can "tag your partners ass" then you shouldn't be doing it.

10-27-2007, 10:21 PM	#8
yak Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 75	I agree. Turnabout IS fair play.

10-29-2007, 02:45 PM	#9
Alex Hawke Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NY, NY Posts: 45	turnabout is fair play, but only if both people are into it. i guess i would say that they should each at least be up for trying it, but i would never make it a requirement. my girl doesn't like to receive anal, but i do. preferences are just that, preferences. of course if a guy has never given it the college try, well then that is another story.